We live in a rape cultured world and men so often have a sense of entitlement.We were taught that woman are responsible for not only their own behaviour,but the man's behaviour as well,whether it be in a relationship or in a dark alley and that is why a woman needs to cater for her man's immaturity rather than holding him to a high standard.
When a woman doesn't feel heard or appreciated in her relationship,changing her tones seems like the only way to get a man's attention.
Unfortunately,this is when men mistakes your intentions and feel like your judging his fault or shortcomings,he'll never open up and listen.Instead he'll shut down,stop HEARING u,and pull back even the more.
You can create space for your man to want to be a better man on his own.But you can't make him do this by demanding that he change,its a losing battle.Lasting change comes from the inside.
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